Bondage and BDSM Explained:
We’ve all heard the term BDSM before and we all have our own ideas about what that means. The truth is that most people practice forms of bondage without even knowing it. You know when she digs her nails into your back as you orgasm? Or that hard spank on the butt he gives you suddenly that drives you crazy? Although subtle and innocent, these are all forms of BDSM.
Let’s look at the term BDSM; it can be broken down like this:
The term bondage describes the act of physical restraining by use of gags, ropes, restraints and whips. The term discipline describes psychological restraining, with the use of rules and punishment to control your partner in bed.
Dominance and submission is the act of giving your partner control over you in an erotic episode or lifestyle. The most common form of dominance and submission is dominance and slavery.
Sadomasochism refers to the act of exchanging physical or emotional pain.
Sadism describes the sexual pleasure you receive from inflicting pain, degradation or humiliation on another person.
The masochist on the other hand enjoys being hurt, humiliated or suffering under the consensual scenario.
In some BDSM the dominator exposes the submitter to a wide range of kinky acts such as: pinching, biting, scratching (with fingernails), spanking or burning (with candle wax). They use objects such as whips, crops, ice cubes, small shocking devices, gags, chains and gags.
People who practice BDSM love using sex toys to fulfill sexual fantasies and desires. Anyone who has read 50 Shades of Grey by EL James knows what we’re talking about. The book has erotic scenes where sex toys and restraints are used to bring the characters to knee trembling orgasms. We have a range of the toys and restraints mentioned in the book in our 50 Shades of Grey Collection.
Why BDSM? Couples who have tried and who practice BDSM find that it brings you two closer together as it takes you to extreme levels of orgasm. Bondage sex yields previously unimagined levels of pleasure, trust, intensity and excitement.
So, if you’re ready to get started, I recommend that you check out our bondage and fetish collection of toys and restraints. You’ll need something sexy and sturdy to tie your partner up with. Maybe you want to surprise your partner, why not blindfold them and use a teaser or a whip?
The possibilities are endless and we have no shortage of bondage and fetish toys and gear for your every need. As long as you keep your mind open and everything is done with consent from your partner we guarantee a good time. Maybe try using a ‘safe word’ so you know the difference between “oh, stop, it’s too good” and “ouch, stop, I don’t like that”.
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