Bondage & Fetish/ BDSM
Bondage and BDSM Explained:
We’ve all heard the term BDSM before and we all have our own ideas about what that means. The truth is that most people practice forms of bondage without even knowing it. You know when she digs her nails into your back as you orgasm? Or that hard spank on the butt he gives you suddenly that drives you crazy? Although subtle and innocent, these are all forms of BDSM.
Let’s look at the term BDSM; it can be broken down like this:
The term bondage describes the act of physical restraining by use of gags, ropes, restraints and whips. The term discipline describes psychological restraining, with the use of rules and punishment to control your partner in bed.
Dominance and submission is the act of giving your partner control over you in an erotic episode or lifestyle. The most common form of dominance and submission is dominance and slavery.
Sadomasochism refers to the act of exchanging physical or emotional pain.
Sadism describes the sexual pleasure you receive from inflicting pain, degradation or humiliation on another person.
The masochist on the other hand enjoys being hurt, humiliated or suffering under the consensual scenario.
In some BDSM the dominator exposes the submitter to a wide range of kinky acts such as: pinching, biting, scratching (with fingernails), spanking or burning (with candle wax). They use objects such as whips, crops, ice cubes, small shocking devices, gags, chains and gags.
People who practice BDSM love using sex toys to fulfill sexual fantasies and desires. Anyone who has read 50 Shades of Grey by EL James knows what we’re talking about. The book has erotic scenes where sex toys and restraints are used to bring the characters to knee trembling orgasms. We have a range of the toys and restraints mentioned in the book in our 50 Shades of Grey Collection.
Why BDSM? Couples who have tried and who practice BDSM find that it brings you two closer together as it takes you to extreme levels of orgasm. Bondage sex yields previously unimagined levels of pleasure, trust, intensity and excitement.
So, if you’re ready to get started, I recommend that you check out our bondage and fetish collection of toys and restraints. You’ll need something sexy and sturdy to tie your partner up with. Maybe you want to surprise your partner, why not blindfold them and use a teaser or a whip?
The possibilities are endless and we have no shortage of bondage and fetish toys and gear for your every need. As long as you keep your mind open and everything is done with consent from your partner we guarantee a good time. Maybe try using a ‘safe word’ so you know the difference between “oh, stop, it’s too good” and “ouch, stop, I don’t like that”.
Don’t forget that our Sex Toy Shop team is always here to answer any of your questions and to help wherever we can click on the Contact Us icon at the top and send us a message and we’ll get back to you as soon as we can. Be naughty, be safe, BDSM…
Anal Toys
At Sex Toy Shop SA we encourage fun in any shape or form. We are constantly experimenting with new ways and toys to keep everyone ultimately satisfied!
Recently we have had a lot of interest and queries concerning anal sex and anal toys so here is a little information that we’ve discovered concerning the good, the bad, and the oh so pleasurable…
For those who don’t know, anal sex or anal intercourse is the insertion and thrusting of an erect penis (or toys, in our case) into a person's anus and rectum for sexual pleasure.
In the past anal sex was commonly associated with male homosexuality but we found the gays were onto something… Anal sex can actually be extremely pleasurable for both sexes as anal sex stimulates the anal nerve endings AND indirectly stimulates the male prostate or the female G-spot resulting in the ultimate intense orgasms. Needless to say anal toys are becoming increasingly popular amongst the more adventurous couples.
Unfortunately for few people anal sex can be painful. But if you find the right anal toy at the right size, with a little training, they too could discover the hidden pleasures of anal toys.
Here’s a brief view of our anal toys, what they are and how to use them.
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These are shorter dildos designed for anal insertion. They are narrowed for easy insertion and have a flared base to prevent the device from becoming lodged in the rectum. |
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| Anal Dildo/ Vibrator This sex toy can be used for vaginal or anal penetation. They are often 'penis shaped' and can be used for masturbation or to achieve orgams with your partner. |
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| This anal sex toy is made of multiple balls attached together in series. Anal Beads are inserted through the anus into the rectum and then removed, this is done continuously with varying speeds until an orgasm and heightened climax is reached. | |
| These are sex toys designed to stimulate a man's prostate for health purposes and orgasmic pleasure |
We dont advice sharing any of these anal toys with other people or using them in any other part of the body for hygeine purposes. Bacteria from anal penetration may persist through cleaning.
Adult Sex Games
Adult Sex Games...
The best way to keep things kinky in the bedroom is to bring in some toys and some games! Adult Sex Games is great for couples looking for just a bit of excitement in their lives, and most certainly will put a stop to those boring nights! Discover your lover and his/her fantasies with the Discover your Lover boardgame, or make things a bit more interesting with some Kamasutra Position Playing Cards! Adult Sex Games help people find their inner "sensual side" and is guaranteed to make things a whole lot steamier! At Sex Toy Shop SA we strive to provide you with great service and great products that will keep your sex life going strong!
Remember that the best way to learn new positions and new things is to get on our site and get your hands on some Toys, Games, Kinky Wear and anything else that tickles your, fancy. A healthy sex life is crutial for any relationship and that is why our team is so dedicated to helping you find what you need.
| The game starts with affectionate, romantic tasks. The next level the game takes you to is the intimate level, things start to warm up now. Then towards the end of the game it’s time for the passionate.....Read more | |
| The Kama Sutra Adult Card Game is the most fun you could have learning new....Read more | |
| Fun Factory Kama Sutra Adult Card Game promises thrilling sexual interactions. Partners learn variations...Read More |
Penis Enhancers/Pumps
Penis Enhancers/Pumps
Many men, who want to maintain a longer and harder erection use a penis pump, pills and cream. How do they work? The Penis pump is a great way to make a mans erection harder and stronger, it is put over the penis and as the vacuum increases so does the blood vessels making the penis hard and srtong and guaranteed to last! The penis pump is a great product and works wonders! How does the Penis Enlarging Cream work? Simply rub the cream in and after continious use the cream will increase circulation and maximise erection potential. Pills can be taken as well to enhance sexual stamina, and help lengthen and strengthen the penis. Vimax, the pill that we offer is a strong herbal pill that is completely healthy. For those men out there wanting a harder, stronger, and just better erections your search ends here!
Adult Sex Shops
Adult Sex Shops
Adult Sex Shops sells all naughty and nice products related to adult sexual and erotic entertainment. Sex Shops sell a range of Sex Toys from dildos and vibrators to masturbators, penis pumps, condoms and lubes.
The world's first sex shop was opened in 1962 in Germany and has since become increasingly popular in many countries. Nowadays online Sex Shops are rapidly becoming the chosen way to shop! You can shop from the comfort of your own home and have your sex toys delivered quickly and discreetly.
Here at Sex Toy Shop SA we strive to satisfy all our customers need whenever and wherever you are! Our Sex Shop delivers to all 9 South African Provinces and all the surrounding areas.
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So no matter what’s your fetish or how adventurous you are, we have something for everyone! Visit our Toy Shop and browse through our tantalising products. If you need help with anything, one of our eager s-experts are waiting a click away on our online chat feature. Friendly and quick service is what we aim for here at Sex Toy Shop SA. So let your hair down, exercise your nimble fingers and shop with us Today!
Discreet Packaging
Discreet Packaging...
Owning a Sex Toy, is not something to be ashamed about, but we do understand that people often prefer to keep their kinky shopping, to themselves. We understand that not everyone would walk into an Adult Store and by a sex toy, which is why we are an online store, for your convenience! We also know that with an online store comes other worries, regarding packaging, labels, as well as our name appearing on bank statements etc. Well, your worries end here.
Our packages are all wrapped up in completely blank wrapping paper that is not see through at all. Our packages also have got no labels on them stating that the package has come from a Sex Toy store. So you can be comforted knowing that anyone handling or seeing this package will not know what is in it, unless they physically open it themselves. As far as your EFT payments, or Credit card payments showing up as "Sex Toy Shop SA" on bank statements go, you do not need to worry. When making the payment you will see that we do not use the name of our online store.
Our team is dedicated to meeting all your needs. With free and fast delivery, discreet packaging, and safe online shopping, we guarantee that you will receive the best service! Contact us with any queries you may have today!
Sex Toy Shows
Our Sex Toy Shows
Getting married? Maid of Honor? Maybe just in the mood for a naughty ladies night? Well, we are the people to call! Not only will you have a fantastic time but we will also throw in R100.00 gift vouchers for each lovely lady attending your party!
Each of our tantalizing parties includes:
- A fully hosted show by our staff where we demonstrate and answer any questions on products on display or on our website
- R100 Gift Voucher for each one of your guests attending!
- A range of products on display for a touch/feel session
- Promotional and branding material
There is a non-refundable booking fee to ensure that the party will commence and this will depend on your location within SA. All our products are the of the best quality, possibly at the cheapest price you will find AND we deliver your scrumptious little package within 2-3 days countrywide, so your ladies will be positively over the moon with our service.
We guarantee you won't be disappointed!
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We recently hosted a very successful Party in PE; here are some pictures below.
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Hens Parties/Ladies Nights
Hens Parties/Ladies Nights
Getting married? Well, before you do, don’t miss out on the chance to throw one last naughty party! Our site has a lovely range of fabulous items to keep your guests giggling and having a blast on this memorable occasion! Get creative and don’t be afraid to go that extra mile, and make the day as fun as possible. To make things unique and interesting, be sure to use lots of Penis shapes and props that will make your guests laugh! For snacks, be sure to get your hands on some Succulent Penis Shaped Lollipops or and don’t forget that every cool drink should contain some Willy shaped ice cubes, and a Penis Straw! Dressing the bride up should be the best part, and with an Edible Candy Bra it most definitely will be. You can also really surprise your guests, and make a meal with our Penis Pasta.
We all know that a Hens/ Bachelorette party is nothing without some props, and kinky toys, which is why we offer them to you at great prices, and fast delivery! Click here to contact us if you need help hosting your party or if you have any questions about our products!
Couples Toys
Couples Toys
One of the most important parts of a relationship is a good sex life.Two people who have been together for a long time, often get into a boring sex routine. Which means that there is not much excitment left in the bedroom and this tends to affect other parts of the relationship too. Its times like these where you need a little bit of a sexual boost, and the best way to achieve that is by purchasing a few of our fun Couples Sex Toys to make things just a bit more interesting. Nothing spices life up better than mixing sex and games together! We have a large range of amazing toys for couples on our site. Guaranteed to please.
From Board Games to Handcuffs and Blind folds we have all you could possibly want for hours of fun in the bedroom! Stay indoors all weekend and get the fun rolling, or surprise your lover after work one evening with some kinky products. For all our great Couples Toys Products CLICK HERE or check out some of our popular products below.
Dildo vs. Vibrator
Dildo vs. Vibrator
We all know that Dildos have become popular world wide and woman are just dying to get their hands on them. The problem is that people seem to also call them, Vibrators. But we know, that they are not the same thing, at all. Lets see why!
The Dildo is a Sex toy that is designed for woman, and does not contain batteries and does not vibrate. They are simply sex toys designed to pleasure woman just as a man would. They are usually in a shape similar to that of a penis or even sometimes identical looking. The Alien Ridgeback Double Ended Jelly Dildo is just one of our extremely popular Dildos.
The Vibrator, also a Sex toy for all the woman out there, is a completely different toy compared to the Dildo. The Vibrator not only vibrates but does other kinky movements as well. It is battery operated and is usually larger than that of the Dildo and not as “floppy”. One of our top Vibrators is the Je Joue Fifi which was made famous after being in the popular TV show, The Sex and the City.
Whether you are a Dildo fan or prefer a good solid Vibrator, we offer a great range in both! Make sure you don’t miss out!
