Bondage

For many people, feeling powerful and in control is a big turn-on. For others, the simple sensation of bondage feels good. Tight constriction can create very intense stimulation, and lots of tight bondage can be a sensory trip, just as a whipping scene can be. Bondage can feel comforting, and kinky! And while you’re lying there all tied up what else is there to do but lie back and enjoy.

There are a bunch things you should know about bondage if you want to get into it. The basic idea is to experiment. The first few times you won't really know what you're doing, but that’s okay. The fun of it is figuring it out as you go with your partner.

Do not leave a bound person alone. Fun is fun, but a helpless person is just that: helpless. A willing partner is too precious to take risks with. 

Be careful about tying anything around your partners neck; It can lead to unconsciousness quickly. Likewise be careful with gags or things tied in the mouth; as well as restricting breathing, they can trigger a gag reflex, which could be really nasty if the bottom can't get the gag out.

The best thing to get yourself if you are just starting out is a simple bondage kit or something that is still in the “Light Bondage” side of things. Sort of like the images below.